10 Steps Bold Domestic Violence Safety Plan

---

If your abuser is bringing the heat, call the police and demand an Emergency Protective Order. It’s your legal shield, keeping them away from you and your space. Period.

This is when things are a tad bit calmer and how you say, “Not today, not ever.” Hit up Dignified Paths at (925.550.8209) or your lawyer to get that restraining order locked in. It’s not just a piece of paper—it’s a line they can’t cross.

A secret stack isn’t just smart—it’s survival. Tuck that cash deep where no one would ever look. Your travel, a motel, or your next move depends on it.

Set up a no-drama alert system with a trusted friend or neighbor. One word, one signal, and they know to call the police. Simple, effective, and zero time wasted.

Make yourself untouchable with extra car and house keys. Tuck them in a clever, secure spot outside. When it’s time to bounce, you’ll be ready!

Find your ride-or-die people—a friend, relative, or neighbor who’ll shelter you if it gets real. And don’t sleep on those local DV shelters—they’ve got beds, resources, and your back.

Need to grab your stuff? No problem. Call the police for a civil standby, and roll in with backup while you collect your belongings. You get your things; they keep the peace.

Turn your home into a fortress: install deadbolts, upgrade your lighting, and change that phone number if needed. Give your neighbor the green light to call the police if they see or hear anything shady.

Grab all your must-haves—birth certificate, IDs, bank info, passport, immigration papers—and keep them somewhere foolproof. Think ready-to-roll, because time will not wait.

Self-defense isn’t just about fighting back—it’s about standing tall. Find a class that amps up your confidence and teaches you how to protect yourself without escalating.

Always trust your gut. If the vibe shifts, be ready to pivot, place yourself near an exit, and roll out like a queen reclaiming her throne.

Your safety plan is your power move. You’re not just leaving—you’re launching into a life where your crown stays firm, your dignity unbroken, and your future is all yours. Let’s get it!